I'm sorry, my precious Kai Jun!

I supposed to blog about my dinner with Hubby B at Elcerdo KL but my precious nephew, Kai Jun has placed a much more important role at this moment. I decided to blog about him after seeing the video clip that my SIL sent it to me.

I must admit that I was a little too harsh on him last Tues. It happened when he asked me a question.

"Ku Ku, spell your name!"

After I spelt my name to him, I got him to spell his name to me.

"Kai Jun."

"What about your surname?"

He looked at me innocently. I raised up my tone.

"You do not know your surname?"

Fine. I wrote on his book and wanted him to read alphabet by alphabet - LOH KAI JUN.

I made a condition to him that if he failed to read out his full name (without looking at the book), then he could not play the games in my iPhone already.

He read few times. Sometimes serious and sometimes playful. When I asked if he is ready for the challenge, he knodded his head.

"KAI JUN."

"Your surname? The first word in your name!"

He requested to look at the book again. Fine. Last chance and I told him to call me when he is prepared.

Again! "KAI JUN."

"Hey what is your surname? Gong Gong, PaPa, KuKu, SuSu & Lucas has it too."

He turned to my mum, his grandma to seek for help.

"Don't look at Ah Ma. She can't help you. Fine. No more iPhone for you!"

Suddenly, he cried out loud. He told me that he don't know! I scolded him. At the end, he slept with his tears and his milk bottle. I checked with his mum and realised that she has never taught him his surname before. Oops.... I have misunderstood him. I thought that he was taught before. I felt so bad after the incident.

I felt even hurt when I watched the clip just now. He is a smart boy. At his age - 3.5 years old, he can read a short story book.

"This is Brownie.

Brownie is a dog.

This is my dog.

I like my dog.

I like Brownie.

Oh No! (with full expression)

I like Brownie.

I like the dog but ........."

He pointed and read word by word. I wish that I could share the clip here but I failed to save it because of the programe problem. I feel terribly hurt with what I have done to him. I know that he doesn't blame me but I just like to apologise to him.

"I'm sorry, my precious!"

It is not easy raising up a child. Though I'm expecting now, I know that it is not going to be an easy journey. Throughout this journey, I'm sure that we will face lot of challenges & disappointment. It depends on how we shower our children with our love and patience. I might not be a good mother but I will try my best to learn and understand their needs.

Dad's 60th Birthday

Dad's birthday falls on Tuesday, 24th Feb. Due to it is a working day, we have planned for early celebration on 22nd Feb. We chose to have the steamboat at Golden Mansion Restaurant because it is Dad's favourite.

He enjoyed his crab stick so much. This is his favourite food now.

A chocolate cake from Singapore. Thanks to my MIL for sponsoring this cake. Hehe...

A picture of all the elderly. :P

Daddy and I. He is thin now. He will be going for his CABG surgery on 28th August. Hope everything will be fine and I sincerely wish him to have a strong and healthy body.

This are the young generation! Why is PoPo sitting so far away?

Happy Birthday, Daddy!

Praying to The Heavenly King (Pia Tien Kong)

As usual, every family, especially the Hokkien will set the table for the prayer of Heavenly King on the 8th day of CNY. Though we are Cantonese, we also join the crowds for this once a year event. I like this day very much because this is like another reunion for the family and also the atmosphere is as happening as the preparation before the CNY.

I did not help out much this year. However, my efficient mum can also cope it very well. Hehe...

The table is set and is waiting for the prayer to start.

The so called money that supposed to burn to the Heavenly King. Mum did not fold and open up each piece of this money this year. Guess she must be tired.

Aiyo... what are this 2 men offering to you le?

Still waiting for ur "Pop Pop"? No wonder you look so obedient.

Godzila started the praying ceremony.

Praying for this little one to be good, obedient and score As for his studies. Poor you. So stress!

Daddy joined in later for the prayer.

Dad and Mum are sending their wishes to the Heavenly King. :)

His most respected girlfriend, Winnie. Kai Jun, can you be gentle a little bit please?

His dad's precious. Never let anyone to play with it but today is the exceptional case. Why le??

He has cleaned up himself and started to disturb the people around him. BB is the first victim.
The camera is the 2nd victim!

He even refused to take the family photo!

I'm the 3rd victim. Haha... We like to play this facial expression games.

It was almost 12pm and the ceremony is ending soon.

What are this 2 looking at?

What are you showing to your best friend le, Kai Jun?

Oh gosh! What has frighten him?

See his chubby cheeks. Feel like pinching him right?

That is the end of the prayer. We left home after helping clearing out all the offerings.

Kai Jun & Flame

My precious visited us on the 6th day of CNY. Being a beauty queen, Flame has successfully seduced him. Haha....

He has a fun time with us. He even refused to follow his mum to Jusco. So what did we do? while waiting for his mum? He played Nitendo Wii and I know that he likes it so much, especially the tennis game. Looking forward his next visit soon. :)

Bumbo Boys

Chin Nee and her family visited me on the 4th day of CNY. I have been reading a lot about the Bumbo Boys and finally I get to see them in person.

They are adorable. Initially I could not differentiate which is "Ko Ko" and which is "Di Di". After some times, I finally can recognize this twin. :)

Though it was just a short gathering, but thanks for dropping by my house, Chin Nee. We have known each other for about 19 years? Am I right?

Godzilla's House

During the 3rd day of CNY, we went to Godzilla's house. Woo... sound like a scary and adventurous visit huh. Haha........ No la! I always like to call my elder brother as Godzilla because he always look so strict and fierce. What to do? Being the eldest in the family. However, he is a good. Just that he doesn't show it to us.

3 months old. Luckily he was awake when we visited him. So we get to play with him for a while. I do not spend much times with him cause he is not taking care by my mum. But I cherish the moments when I see him.

A pic with Lucas.

Finally we get to take this picture together. :)

Do they look alike? I think so.

He missed his babyhood. Haha...